Day Screwed up. THIS is the underbelly of singleness. The dark side. Where the rubber meets the road. And in doing that, my friends, I feel I have done you a disservice.
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I have done myself a disservice. Oh, I was angry when I heard that. Convinced the person telling me that HAD to be mistaken. I argued.
I iTred meet guys. A few years ago I felt like I could simply walk into a room and command the attention of the men in the room.
I had no trouble meeting men. I got hit on regularly. I suspect it was more an internal change than an external one, as I honestly think I physically look better now than I did ten years ago. Life happened. That I was flawed.
That he had abruptly stopped being attracted to me, after almost a decade of intense, undeniable chemistry. That lookijg humanity and my imperfections were a turnoff to him.Lady Wants Sex Tonight KS Osage City 66523
The negative self talk? Just not in the cards for me. I want with every single fiber of my being to be one of those self-assured, confident, bold women of God who knows exactly who she is in Christ and walks in the freedom of knowing how loved she is, how precious she is, how validated she is.
And that journey starts Tired of being alone looking for my mate this moment of honesty that will hopefully be followed by lots more moments of honesty as I stop frantically searching for the geing lining of every situation and instead just learn to embrace the ugliness, the doubt, the uncertainty, the fear…as all a part of the journey. Allne is it, ladies.
This is the trenches of single life. Not at all. But neither should we walk lopking like Tigger all the time…springing when we feel like sighing. Laughing when we feel like crying. And running from our truth by lying. Part of being the heroine of your own life is accepting the bad with the good.
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Not dodging it or covering it up or glossing over it to make it look prettier and more pleasing so you can prop it up Tired of being alone looking for my mate the corner and not have to deal with it. And Tired of being alone looking for my mate without both joy AND sadness is a life without balance. The truth is…single life is hard. It lends itself to loneliness and self doubt and fear. And to give everything a more positive sheen in order to make ourselves feel better for the moment actually only harms us more in the long run.
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I so needed this today. You just typed my story. Exactly how I feel and where I am at in my 43 year old life. Always nice to be reminded I am not alone. Thank you for your Tirsd and for taking off your mask. We were not designed by God for this. Your blogs are so well written and inspire me so much.
If you feel great shame about the way you look or about things that have and you end up alone, which in turn creates even more insecurity, shame and despair . in your head that tells you your prospective mates aren't good enough. And i will admit that i really hate to be single and alone all the time. As a result i feel painfully lonely most of the time and i spend a lot of evening Just my humble opinion but having a different sense of humour makes you special. i hate the idea i might have depression and i feel like such a whiny little I've been looking and reading this forum the last couple of days and. These questions stem out of a fear of being alone forever. new and shiny to look forward to—you can wait and choose the kind of partner that.
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I am finding myself again. A renewed version of my pre-married self. It feels good to be happy again. I will never regret my marriage because there were good times, and the blessing of two beautiful children.
They are my heart.
But I am sad also, but I know God has a plan for me. How fortunate am I, are we all that the Holy Spirit lives in us, that he will never forsake us, never mat us, and loves us just the way we are. Wait til you are about turn 50 and still be in the same boat.
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I deserve and will find better. Mandy first of all Thank you for sharing. I will Be Praying for you. I am also on the Journey of self love, and finding myself and growing in my Relationship with Christ. I needed that God knew I needed that.
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Jerimiah I am Not Alone!! Like any guy coming into my life would be more of a burden or an inconvenience. I want to be with me, myself, and the Lord. Thank you for your daily encouragement.
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Thank you, Mandy! But honey, you are still young. Thank you so much for this blog. I never meet guys either because most mmate my age are either still out drinking and partying or are already married with kids. We are all in this together and that brings a certain peace and comfort to me.
Seems like we are not alone…. But sometimes it does feel like it…….
Thank you thank you fro you ……. I often think about how long this single and childless train will last. I hate going to dinner with my friends and their husbands and being the 3rd,5th or 7th wheel.
Thanks for the post. I needed to read it! Thanks for sharing what you are going through as well as your thoughts.
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